Families and COVID: Building Resilience Through the Lens of the Neurorelational Framework
September 3, 2023
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Date: March 23, 2021. Presented to: Cottage Health Psychiatric Grand Rounds
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Back to School: The Most Wonderful Time of the Year, or is it? Community presentation
September 3, 2023
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Making Sense of the Neurodiverse Child
September 3, 2023
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Date: April 12, 2023. Presented to: Santa Barbara Chapter of California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists https://2147e2.a2cdn1.secureserver.net/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/sbcamft.mp4
Managing in the Rough Seas of a Pandemic
September 3, 2023
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Date: April 23, 2020. Presented to: Crane Country Day School, Santa Barbara Click here to download the Managing in the Rough Seas of a Pandemic-presentation
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September 3, 2023
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From Compliance to Competence: The Teen Years
September 3, 2023
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Date: March 10, 2020. Presented to: Santa Barbara Middle School
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When we focus on our kids’ learning process over their final product, we can take steps to help them overcome hurdles. In our daily lives,
3 Essential Steps to Take Before Getting Angry at Your Kids
January 19, 2022
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For parents, there is a better way to handle your own anger before you act. Many moments in parenting prompt us to move into action.
Moving Beyond “Whack-a-Mole”
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I often hear aggravation from parents about their child’s “disrespect,” “rudeness,” or “cussing” when describing challenges at home. They retell stories of conflicts over technology,
From Struggles to Super-Powers: Helping Your Child Grow
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As parents, we have many goals for our child. Overall, these goals are about managing the challenges in their lives, so they can ultimately be
Creating Order in an Upside-Down World
April 2, 2020
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In the past, staying at home was a privilege, a day off, a stay-cation or just an opportunity to relax. However, we are now in
Facing onto the Rough Winds of a Challenging Time
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Debra Kessler, R.N., M.N., Psy.D For a sapling to emerge as a stable and sturdy tree, it establishes a deep root system and a
Is Your History Pulling Your Strings?
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How often have you asked yourself “Why am I acting this way?” It is not uncommon to notice that, as we look around at others
Skiing – a Metaphor for Emotional Regulation
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Why Validate?
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and becomes in the end an oak tree,
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