Why Do Kids Get Stuck on Certain Tasks?
When we focus on our kids’ learning process over their final product, we can take steps to help them overcome hurdles. In our daily lives,
When we focus on our kids’ learning process over their final product, we can take steps to help them overcome hurdles. In our daily lives,
For parents, there is a better way to handle your own anger before you act. Many moments in parenting prompt us to move into action.
If you are reading this you are likely struggling with repeated conflicts. One moment it is about getting homework done and the next it is
I often hear aggravation from parents about their child’s “disrespect,” “rudeness,” or “cussing” when describing challenges at home. They retell stories of conflicts over technology,
As parents, we have many goals for our child. Overall, these goals are about managing the challenges in their lives, so they can ultimately be
In the past, staying at home was a privilege, a day off, a stay-cation or just an opportunity to relax. However, we are now in
Debra Kessler, R.N., M.N., Psy.D For a sapling to emerge as a stable and sturdy tree, it establishes a deep root system and a
How often have you asked yourself “Why am I acting this way?” It is not uncommon to notice that, as we look around at others
When we enter the world, we transition from an insulated environment to one that is full of challenges. We must learn how to navigate around
Validation is a way of letting someone know we understand him or her. Being understood is the essential ingredient to feeling connected and supported. When
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