Cracking the Parenthood Code: Together, Step by Step

Welcome to the heart of parenting wisdom, where decades of experience meet the art of nurturing. With over two decades as a seasoned clinical psychologist and pediatric nurse, I've mastered the delicate dance of guiding families towards better relationships with their children and brighter tomorrows.

A More Individualized Therapeutic Approach

Parenting isn't just about raising children; it's about cultivating mutual resilience, understanding, and love. Through our journey together, we'll unravel the intricate web of body, brain, and behavior, crafting personalized solutions tailored to your unique child and family dynamics.

MY SERVICES

My Mission:

Guiding parents in appreciating and championing their child’s specific wiring, fostering optimal support in the adventurous journey of parenthood.

About Me

I’ve been where many of you are—and it certainly wasn’t easy. But I learned how to successfully navigate my daughter’s developmental issues and discover a positive path forward. And now, having successfully guided hundreds of families in holistically parenting children with emotional and developmental challenges, I can help you do the same…

MY STORY

FAQs

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After assessing your situation, I then tailor my services to best meet your goal, whether that’s parent-coaching, working with your child, or working with parents and children together. Check out my Services page for more info….
Over the past 20 years, I’ve worked with a wide range of families and children and have learned that every person is unique. It’s why I tailor my services according to YOU, your child, and your situation. Happy to discuss more on a phone call.
I accept payments made via Zelle, check, or cash. I do not accept any insurances; however, I do provide a monthly superbill for you to submit.

Check can be mailed to:
Dr. Debra Kessler
1013 Harbor Blvd
Suite 125
Oxnard, CA 93035-1131

Testimonials:

“Working with Dr. Debra Kessler has truly been a transformative journey in my parenting experience. Her insightful guidance and compassionate approach have illuminated my path through the complexities of raising daughters. Through her expertise, I have learned the profound value of connecting with my children on a deeper level and the power of reflection before taking action. Dr. Kessler has shown me that prioritizing the process over the products of parenting not only fosters understanding but also nurtures growth and strengthens bonds within the family.

I wholeheartedly recommend Dr. Kessler to any parent seeking enlightenment and support in navigating the intricate landscape of raising children. Her wisdom and dedication have enriched my perspective, fostering a more harmonious and joyful parenting journey. I am grateful for the guidance she has provided and the positive impact it has had on my relationship with my daughters. Thank you, Debra, for your invaluable insights and unwavering commitment to helping families thrive.”

“So many other therapists before blamed me, misdiagnosed me, didn’t with me. But you listened to me, you didn’t make me feel invalid, and I felt comfortable sharing things with you that I had never told anyone else.”

“Thank you for being such a caring person. Thank you for reaching out during my tough times. Most importantly, thank you for helping me see that there was so much more to life than just suffering.”

“Thank you for changing our family! Our impact will be felt for generations. Thank you for showing us how to take what appears to be rags and stitching together, mindfully and create a beautify “quilt”. We will always have issues, we also have tools. You have been a blessing, a great investment and a dear ally. I am grateful!”

“What an absolute gift you have been to our family. We chose this piece named “generations” because the care and support and tools and wisdom you offered us will – undoubtedly impact our family members for generations. Thank you from the bottoms of our hearts.”

“Thank you for everything have done for me these past two years. In 2017 I had completely given up. I was unhappy, didn’t want to leave the house, wasn’t eating. But you helped change that around. Now I know how to deal with situations better, I’ve gotten better and am continuing to work and learn about myself.”